May 14, 2017

Virtuous Woman

Written by Boyd Bailey

Thoughts from daily Bible reading for today – May 14, 2017

A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Proverbs 31:10

A woman of character is not easily found. She is rare and valuable. Because of her appealing attributes, she is a gift from God. Thank Him often if you are blessed with this quality of woman in your life. She is rare because we live in a self-crazed culture, yet a woman of character is others-focused. For the follower of Christ, selflessness is expected. But for our society as a whole, it is an anomaly. She refuses to demean herself to a standard of mediocrity.

Her goal is excellence in living. Duplicity is far from her thinking as she serves with authenticity and industry. No skills or gifts remain dormant in her active life. She channels her energies into the welfare of her family and is resourceful with financial opportunities. A woman of character is an anchor for her family. Her character provides stability when challenges creep into her home. She is determined to do the right thing regardless of the difficulties it may require. Character is more important than compromise, therefore she models the way for her friends and family. She is a rock of hope and consistency because God’s Word has become that for her.

However, be careful to not take the world on your shoulders—that is God’s job. Also, do not hold a standard of perfection over your head. Leave yourself some wiggle room for mistakes. You will make mistakes. Let mistakes be a reminder of what to do and what not to do in the future. They are reminders of your dependence on God. Your goal is not to live a mistake-free life but a life that loves God and loves people. Let Him continue to develop your character and grow you into a mentor of other women. Don’t waste your wonderful experiences. Share them with younger women so that they can grow in their character.

“A wife of noble character is her husband’s crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones” (Proverbs 12:4).

Husband, love your wife of character. Tell her often how proud you are of her. Do not be intimidated by her level of spirituality. On the contrary, celebrate her passion for life and her spiritual maturity. Allow her life to challenge you and inspire you to the same level of character development. Your virtuous woman is a tremendous asset. Your best and most strategic business decision occurred when you married a woman of character. Her wisdom is unparalleled. Her discernment of human nature borders on the divine. She is uncanny in seeing things you do not see—and saving you a ton of money and time (that is if you listen to her).

Her influence is ever-present in her work and home. Encourage her burgeoning influence and opportunities. Become her biggest cheerleader. If she wants to start a business, help her start a business. When she needs some help with the house and lawn, make that investment. Free her to do what she does best. It may be teaching, mentoring, being a mom, sewing or serving in a variety of capacities. It may be to take care of her parents during the latter stages of life.

Allow her to reach her full potential. Give her the cash, confidence, and resources to reach for her dreams. Be grateful. A woman of character is not to be taken for granted. Yet this is easy to do. Make a big deal out of her accomplishments, because they are a big deal. Help her to pace herself and protect her from the encroachment of those with warped motives. Her character is a valued asset that needs to be managed with care. Care for her as she cares for you!

“And now, my daughter, don’t be afraid. I will do for you all you ask. All the people of my town know that you are a woman of noble character” (Ruth 3:11).



Heavenly Father, thank you for the women in my life who seek You above all else.


How can I reward a virtuous woman I know with a special gift?

Related Reading

Psalm 113:9; Proverbs 14:1, 18:22, 31:30; Mark 14:3; Romans 16:12

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  1. Sandy Aletraris says:

    This is such a great read and guide for both men and women to aim towards shaping and strengthening your relationships. I’ve truly been blessed with A husband that carries my life with these treasured words. Blessed to be a blessing!!

  2. Gwynne says:

    Dear Sandy,
    Thank you so much for responding to the devotional, “Virtuous Woman”. It makes my heart so happy to hear that your husband celebrates you in such a Godly way.
    I am thankful that he sees you with such love and joy. What an amazing role model he is to all those around him. Praise God!
    And Sandy, thank YOU for shining God’s Light as a wife and woman of God! You are truly a blessing.
    There was so much in this devotional that speaks to all of us. My hope would be that those who are engaged and dating also read these words as they pray about their potential mate.
    “Character is more important than compromise, therefore she models the way for her friends and family. She is the rock of hope and consistency because God’s Word has become that for her.” Amen and Amen.
    Thank you Sandy. We are grateful for you and look forward to hearing from you again.
    “But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory both now and forever! Amen.”
    2 Peter 3:18

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