January 8, 2011

Teach Children Wisdom

Written by Boyd Bailey

Thoughts from daily Bible reading for today- January 8, 2011

“Pains as of a woman in childbirth come to him, but he is a child without wisdom; when the time arrives, he does not come to the opening of the womb.” Hosea 13:13

Children need to be taught wisdom. Yes, sometimes it’s hard for them to grasp its meaning because of their age and stage in life. Wisdom comes through understanding and applying God’s Word to life’s experiences. Many individuals are limited in their perspective of both, but wisdom guides them from unwise decision-making. Wisdom is one of the most wonderful gifts you can give your child. Therefore, make its knowledge inviting and practical.

Tell stories of individuals who made wise decisions and the positive effects that followed. Then contrast these uplifting illustrations with those who chose an unwise path and suffered harm as a result. Stories stir the heart and illuminate the mind. We owe it to our offspring to engage them in conversations about real-life people. Otherwise, they stay oblivious in a bubble of unrealistic living. Indeed, wisdom comes by allowing them to spread their wings and begin their own decision-making while they still live under your roof and protection.

Start them out young by helping them make money decisions. Show them the pattern of “share, save, and spend” from your own financial management. Then lead them to do the same. Watch them smile as they experience the joy of generosity. Be proud as their discipline and patience grows. With their savings they will be able to purchase something they’ve been wanting with cash. Be an example of smart spending, and you may become a recipient of its fruit as your child learns how to be a savvy shopper. Financial wisdom is a practical gift, whose principals you can use to train your child (Ephesians 6:4).

Good judgment in choosing friends is another facet of teaching your child the ways of wisdom. Make sure children understand the propensity to be like the people they “hang out with” (Proverbs 13:20). It’s wise to choose friends whose faith is growing and robust. Go with friends who lift you up, instead of those who pull you down. It is unwise to flirt with friendships that dilute growth with God. Discuss why they need to avoid friendships that become a wedge between themselves and you. Wisdom does not settle for the shallow acceptance of just any friend. Wisdom has a high standard for friendship.

Challenge your children to pray for friends who will complement their faith and move them closer to their heavenly Father. Wise friends rub off on your children in wise ways.

Lastly, discuss with your child regularly the wisdom of God. He is the author of wisdom (Proverbs 2:6). Read with them from the Bible, and discuss the meanings of particular verses. Make the discussion of Scripture a part of your everyday life. Take your Bible to church. Underline the phrases that leap from the page into your heart and mind. Then discuss its application to your life over lunch. Ask your child to hold you accountable to the truth God is teaching you.

You cannot improve on the wisdom of the Lord. God’s wisdom will follow your children the rest of their lives. It will be with them when you are absent. You can be at peace when you have a child who is wise in the ways of God. You are wise when your goal is to grow a wise child. Wise children become wise adults.

Taken from the January 6th reading in Seeking Daily the Heart of God.

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Comments

  1. Renee Plaza says:

    Can I get a free copy of devotional Wisdom from Love for February?

  2. Boyd Bailey says:

    Yes Renee, look for the sign up button on our web site this week. In Christ, Boyd


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