February 11, 2011

Raising Sons

Written by Wisdom Hunters

Thoughts from daily Bible reading for today- February 11, 2011

“Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching.” Proverbs 1:8

Raising a son requires intentionality from a parent or parents. Wise are the father and mother who have a plan to instruct and teach their son how to make God-honoring choices and to lead like Jesus. Yes, being an excellent example is fundamental, but it takes more than modeling—sons need to understand the why’s, what’s and how’s.

For example, they need life preparation in how to: become a Christian, pray and study the Bible. Take them through the book of John to love Jesus, the book of Ephesians to grasp grace and the book of Proverbs to embrace wisdom. Boys and young men who grow up fearing God are prepared to persevere through adversity, success, marriage and parenting.

“Listen to your father, who gave you life, and do not despise your mother when she is old. Buy the truth and do not sell it—wisdom, instruction and insight as well” (Proverbs 23:23-24).

Fathers show your son how to relate to girls and young women by loving and cherishing your wife—and wives be an example of the woman he will marry by respecting and following your husband. Parents who agree in their discipline and expectations provide a consistent environment that causes their son to grow in confidence and manhood.

Anger does not work in molding your son’s will; rather use encouragement and calm correction. Lead him to be accountable to Almighty God and then he will behave well, even when you are absent from his presence. Teach him the value of hard work–let your son sweat through manual labor. Help him discover his God-given gifts and then invest time and money to develop his skills. Competence and character create confidence.

“Listen, my son, and be wise, and set your heart on the right path” (Proverbs 23:19).

What if your son strays from the truth? What if he makes a series of foolish decisions? It’s imperative dad and mom stay on their knees in earnest prayer for their wayward son. Pray for him to be influenced by those who love Christ, pray for him to grow weary of sin and pray for the love of God to draw him to Himself. Parent’s prayers are productive.

Rules without relationship lead to rebellion, so keep your relationship growing and communicate often. Even if you are the only one initiating, stay the course in caring correspondence. Above all—start early instilling godly wisdom into your son—as it is easier to build sons than to fix sons. Lead him to be a leader who loves God. Indeed, joy awaits the parent or parents who by God’s grace are able to grow up godly sons.

“The father of a righteous child has great joy; a man who fathers a wise son rejoices in him. May your father and mother rejoice; may she who gave you birth be joyful” (Proverbs 23:24-25)!

Am I intentional in how I raise my son in the ways of the Lord?

Related Readings: Proverbs 23:15-16; 31:2; Philippians 2:22; James 2:21

Additional Resource: Look next week for the free e-book, Wisdom for Dads: Eleven Daddy/Daughter dates in 2011.

Additional Resource: Learn from this video blog with Russ Crosson, “How to raise godly sons”, click here… http://bit.ly/ik4tjV


Comments

  1. Sheila Gieselman says:

    What if the son is being raised by his mother and grandmother with a mostly absent father?

  2. Courtney G says:

    God spoke directly to me through you. Thank you for being obedient.

  3. We were blessed with godly Sunday School teachers (shout out to Ms. Pat Rogers and Mr. Dean!) and a supportive church family when we were raising both of our kids. It is so important to be active in your church along with your children and not just send them to church and stay out of it yourself. I really believe that if you teach them Godly principles and lead them to accept Jesus as their Savior even if they stray in their life they will have this basis to come back to. Great bible study. Good to see this.

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