January 23, 2015

Love Disciplines

Written by Boyd Bailey

Thoughts from daily Bible reading for today – January 23, 2015

He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him. Proverbs 13:24

Love carefully disciplines; apathy silently ignores. Love looks for ways to instruct and improve, while busyness has no time for the tender touch of truth. Do you take the time to discipline your children? Do your offspring encounter your rebuke along with your encouragement? It is because we love them that we correct their attitudes and challenge them to better behavior. Rules restrain them from reacting foolishly or in the flesh.

How can our children learn to make wise decisions if we do not discipline them to love and obey God? Like a skilled artist with a warm lump of clay, our children are moldable and their character pliable to be crafted by Christ. We seek consistency in our own character so we have the moral authority and respect to lead them. Your child’s first impression of the Lord is their father and mother, so be an authority that reveals His love.

The branch of a tree is easily bent when it is tender, so start when they are young with yielding to Christ’s Lordship. “Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it” (Proverbs 22:6). Foolishness flees from the faithful and prayerful punishment of loving parents. “Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far from him” (Proverbs 22:15). Discipline leads to freedom.

You may lament the need for respect from your son or daughter. It is your consistent concern for their character growth that invites their respect. “Fathers disciplined us and we respected them for it” (Hebrews 12:9). Loving parents honestly inquire, “Does my example of growth from my Heavenly Father’s discipline make me an earthly father worth following?”

“For whom the LORD loves He reproves, Even as a father corrects the son in whom he delights” (Proverbs 3:12, NASB).

Prayer: How do I respond to the Lord’s discipline?

Related Readings: Proverbs 23:13-14; Proverbs 29:15-17; Hebrews 12:6-8; Ephesians 6:4

Post/Tweet this today: Your child’s first impression of the Lord is their father and mother, so be an authority that reveals His love. #lovedisciplines #wisdomhunters

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  1. denise svec says:

    Thank u ..thus perfect reading. Since it some thing I struggle with. And I do love my kids I’m mom who dont like to be that mean mom. But after read I want to learn more. By sending these to my e mail.

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