October 28, 2020

Pity Party

Written by Boyd Bailey

Thoughts from daily Bible reading for today – October 28, 2020 

Elijah was afraid… and prayed that he might die. “I have had enough, LORD,” he  said. 1 Kings 19:3-4  

We can feel sorry for ourselves when our faith has been frazzled and fear intimidates us. I  sometimes exclaim, ‘Lord I’ve had enough!’ I may even host a pity party in my heart, but not so  surprisingly I am the only one who attends. Health issues, financial frustrations, relational  conflict, spiritual disappointments and circumstances out of our control all contribute to self-pity.  Has your confidence been crushed? Have you gone from a spiritual high to a new low of  anxiety? Have hope; there is a righteous road to relief.  

Great men and women of faith are not immune to severe insecurities. Elijah is calling down fire  from heaven one day, and soon after is huddled, frightened and depressed in a cold cave.  Isolation feeds our insecurities. It is in our struggles that we need the prayers and support of  God’s people. Maybe you have always been the one on the giving end, but now it’s your  opportunity to receive. You bless others when you accept their sincere love.  

“But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in  weakness’” (2 Corinthians 12:9).  

You can depend on God’s protection when you do God’s work. His resources are never reluctant  to get involved with a humble heart. So lift your focus from yourself and your sorry situation,  and seek Him. He has the grace you need to get through tough times—our weakness is an  opportunity for Christ’s power to rest on you.  

Above all, make sure mental, emotional or physical fatigue have not flattened your faith. Get  away and rest in the Lord. Take long walks and take in the wonders of Christ’s creation. You may  need to play before you can pray. Perhaps you engage a Christ-centered counselor to help you  process your angst and anguish. Lastly, volunteer in service for Jesus and your self-pity will  transition into love for others. Thus we pray, ‘How can I love my way out of my lamentations?’  

“Your love has given me great joy and encouragement, because you, brother, have refreshed the  hearts of the saints” (Philemon 1:7).


Heavenly Father, deliver me from self-pity to self-surrender to You and Your love, in  Jesus’ name, amen.


In what area of my life do I feel sorrow for myself, and where can I hand all over to God and trust Him with the outcome?

Related Reading

Numbers 20:16; Psalm 34:17; Acts 6:8; Romans 5:2

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