September 15, 2025

Family Conflict

Written by Boyd Bailey

Wise and humble leadership responds to opposition with intercession, not defensiveness.”

Thoughts from daily Bible reading for today – September 15, 2025 

Miriam and Aaron criticized Moses because he had married a Cushite woman. They said, “Has the Lord spoken only through Moses? Hasn’t he spoken through us, too?” But the Lord heard them. (Now Moses was very humble—more humble than any other person on earth.) Numbers 12:1-3, NLT

I have two younger brothers, and aside from childhood skirmishes and squabbles, we have experienced little conflict as adults. A lesson I am learning is that this is not necessarily true for many families, especially when money and power are competing factors within a family. Conflict, acknowledged or unacknowledged, is a very real threat to the emotional, relational, financial, and spiritual health of an immediate family unit. How can we be prepared to address issues without it becoming a personal attack or an affront to each other’s character? Moses faced this with his siblings Miriam and Aaron. Fortunately, the Lord intervened, providing needed clarity, and Moses took the high road of humility by interceding on behalf of his agitators. 

Maybe the most awkward family dinner in history. Miriam and Aaron, Moses’ own siblings, have been whispering behind his back about his Cushite wife. But that’s just the appetizer—the main course is their real grievance: “Who does Moses think he is, acting like God’s exclusive spokesman?” You can almost hear the toxic family dynamics brewing in their desert tent. “We’re prophets too,” they mutter. “Why should little brother get all the glory?” It’s sibling rivalry dressed up in spiritual language, jealousy masquerading as theological concern.

God, apparently, has great hearing. He calls all three to the Tent of Meeting for what amounts to a divine intervention. Feel the tension as the cloud descends and God’s voice pierces through their petty squabbling. His verdict is clear and devastating: Moses isn’t just another prophet. While others receive dreams and riddles, Moses gets face-to-face conversations and crystal-clear communication. The difference? Humility. Scripture notes Moses was “more humble than any man on earth”—ironic, considering his siblings’ pride just cost them dearly. When divine anger erupts and Miriam’s skin turns leprous white, the family dynamics instantly flip. Aaron, suddenly terrified, begs Moses for help. This is where Moses’ character shines brightest—instead of enjoying his vindication, he immediately intercedes for his slanderous sister. “Please, God, heal her!” Four simple words that reveal everything about true leadership. No lectures, no conditions, just compassionate prayer for someone who just tried to undermine him. The Lord grants healing but insists on consequences: seven days outside the camp. It’s mercy with accountability, grace with growth. Forgiveness doesn’t erase discipline; it turns it from punishment into restoration. This wilderness family feud teaches timeless truths: jealousy destroys relationships, humility attracts heaven’s favor, and real leaders respond to attacks with intercession, not retaliation. Sometimes God’s greatest servants face their fiercest opposition from those closest to home.

This story hits uncomfortably close to home. How often do I disguise my jealousy as spiritual concern? When a colleague gets promoted or a friend receives recognition, do I truly celebrate or secretly doubt their worthiness? Miriam’s downfall reminds me that God sees through religious-sounding criticism when it’s really just wounded pride. Moses’ immediate intercession for his accuser challenges my natural reactions. When someone undermines me, my first instinct isn’t prayer—it’s defense or retaliation. But wise leadership responds to opposition with intercession, not defensiveness. Sin’s consequences also speak volumes. Grace doesn’t eliminate accountability. Sometimes loving restoration requires uncomfortable seasons of discipline, whether I’m giving it or receiving it. Am I willing to pray for those who oppose me?

“A peaceful heart leads to a healthy body; jealousy is like cancer in the bones” (Proverbs 14:30, NLT).

Prayer

Lord, help me approach family conflict with humility, not pride. Soften my heart, guide my words, and lead me in love. Let prayer be my starting point and peace my goal. In Jesus’ name, amen.


Application

What conflict are you facing that requires your humility and prayers?


Related Reading

Exodus 20:17; Romans 13:14; 1 Corinthians 3:3; James 3:16


Worship Resource

Forrest Frank: God’s Got My Back


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